Sunday, February 8, 2009

Relationship I

attended church service in the morning. was late for half an hour cause i overslept! it seldom happen but yeah.. i just did today. hee..

Pastor Kong preached bout relationship today, not particularly with God but Men & Women relationship. there's even few slots of drama which makes it really interesting. i would say it's more practical to those who's married, getting married or attached.
anyway i'll just share part of it here, in case anyone needs a boost in ya relationship :)

Peter 3:7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers mayb not be hindered.

Marriage is about
  • sharing life
  • understanding
  • appreciation (increases the value of the person being appreciated)
  • meeting needs (affair mostly happens when a partner's need are not being taken care of and the third party meets his/her needs)
okay.. about meeting needs. what do men and women need?
learn up ladies and gentlemen!

Women
#1 Affection [1 Cor 7:3]

- security
- protection
- comfort
- approval/appreciation
*Hugging is the simplest way to show affection :)

Men
#1 Sexual Fulfillment o.O? [1 Cor 7:4-5]
- a skill : learning/practicing LOL
- an art : love & affection

** affection and sexual fulfillment have to come together. one without another is like a stadium filled with crowds, without the players

#2
#3 to be continued
#4 next Sunday's service
#5

[1 Cor 7:3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband]
[1 Cor 7:4-5 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent of time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control]


m very curious over the rest but i wont be around to attend the service. argh!! guess i might just purchase the dvd just to catch the ending. hahaha. might be a good gift to Elaine and Leslie too. hm.. good investment :)

had fellowship with CG over at Melleo, Simei. have no plans after that, and no one to tag along to. everyone was heading back home and uncle owen dowana take me to his soccer match o.o
but its understandable cause bringing me along is like bringing a guy for a shopping spree. stressful! LOL

anyway.. went over to City Hall shopping. walked around like a headless chicken XD
i cant wait to start my distance learning degree cause i'll rot and grow mushroom soon. still waiting for my application to be approved. counting the days..

E447 *missing Limin, HuiRan n Ben*

4 comments:

Ray Titus Ong said...

wow...ur preaching over ur blog?
hahaha...i think u should come up with something like bible.com d...

y`qianhwei said...

hahaha.. all my followers will go haywire and become one lost and confused soul. LOL

Ray Titus Ong said...

really? i thought it would be more of a growing community with u being d leader and all...i do believe u have d charisma 2 lead ur ppl...

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